Saturday, March 26, 2011

Paige's New Bike

Today, Paige got her first bicycle! We went to Toys-R-Us and she rode all the bikes in her size. She decided on a purple bike with flowers and a pink seat. We took the bike home, put it together, and she was immediately off on her first adventure. Before the bike was even complete, she was asking to ride to her friend Kaylynn's house, because she had written her a letter and wanted to deliver it. Here's a short photo journal of our afternoon.


Paige and Daddy building her new bike.


Paige helped with the seat...


...and the purple pedals!

Once assembled and tires aired up, outside we went! This is Paige hopping up on the bike for the first time.

And we're off!

It was a little chilly outside today, so Mommy helped her with her vest.

Then we were off to Kaylynn's.

Bye bye, little girl.

Paige and Kaylynn were very excited to see each other. In fact, Kaylynn had also written a letter for Paige!

Then Kaylynn picked a flower from the garden, and sent it home with Paige.

Headed back home.

As she became more comfortable on the new bike, she began to ride faster and faster. Look at those handlebar tassles fly!

Wednesday, March 23, 2011

Eli's Turn

We just celebrated Eli's second birthday last month. As we reflected on his second year, we are so grateful it was spent mostly at home healthy, and not in the hospital much like his first year. In fact, we only spent one night in the hospital last year. What an accomplishment!
Here is an much overdue update on our little miracle man:

Physiologically: Eli last had a cath study done in June. Once again, he failed, showing he wasn't ready for his next surgery. He still has pulminary hypertension, where his lungs have too much blood pressure. The cardiology team decided since he growing, developing, and not showing any signs of heart failure to let him continue to grow in hopes that his lung pressures will decrease. In January we had a checkup with our cardiologist. While there we had an echocardiogram done. This showed no changes since his last one, just before the cath. So it looks like his pressures are still too high. We go back for another checkup in a few months. It will be decided then what the next step is. There are no dates set, we are just letting Eli tell us when he may be ready. We just know that the next step will be another cath study.
One exciting change for Eli is he no longer needs oxygen. We have a monitor that tells us his saturation levels. Most of us are 98%. Eli's target range is 75-85%. When he drops below 75%, we have to supplement with oxygen. When he first came home, he needed oxygen all the time. And we were constantly adjusting the amount of oxygen because his levels were very sporadic. As he has grown he has changed to needing it just at night when he was sleeping and now he never needs it. He hasn't used oxygen in at least 6 months. It really is liberating not having to worry about him tangling himself up in oxygen tubes and monitor cords as he is rolling and crawling around. We still put him on a monitor when he is sleeping, since we can't watch him, but he hasn't alarmed in a really long time. We've asked his cardiologist, surgeon, and pediatrician what this means and why he no longer needs oxygen. All of them have said, "He just doesn't need it. We can't explain why. We don't know why. It's not a sign of anything." Okay. I guess we'll just enjoy being "cordless".
Developmentally: After Eli's pacemaker was installed over a year ago, we noticed big changes in him developmentally. He finally had the strength to sit up since he has help with his heart. For many months Eli would roll and scoot on his back to get to places where he wanted to go. He could sit by himself, but it took him a long time to transition from sit to laying and how to get back up again. With exercises given to us by our physical therapist, Eli finally learned how to transition in December. Not a week later, he was crawling. In the 2 months he's been crawling, he's gotten so much stronger. He's fast! Now he is getting on his knees, cruising furniture on his knees, and is just beginning to pull up to stand on things. It's now a race between him and Samuel to see who is going to be walking first.
Just as our physical therapist said, once Eli progresses with his motor development, his verbal will quickly follow. Eli is talking up a storm! Unfortunately we don't understand him most of the time. He has a few dozen words and phrases that we have translated. Everyday we are able to figure out a new word or two. Just this week he has started to repeat a word. If I guess wrong, he'll shake his head and repeat it. When I finally figure it out he squeals in excitement. He is also understanding us better, too.
Two of Eli's favorite things are cars and being outside. If he is inside, you'll probably find him laying on the floor pushing around a few of his many cars, trains, buses or thing with wheels. Given the opportunity, Eli will be outside. He loves to explore our backyard. He likes to throw dirt, crawl in the grass and climb on the rocks. He got a tricycle for his birthday, and since he can't pedal yet, he loves to be pushed around on it. We take walks as often as we can, and he'll just narrate everything he sees along the way.
There are many days that I forget that Eli is so sick. He behaves normal. He is a boy. He is getting stronger. I'm so thankful to see these changes on the outside. I still pray and beg that God is healing him on the inside.

Thursday, March 3, 2011

Overdue

So if we were library books, we'd have some serious overdue charges on our blog. Now that I think about it, I think we actually do have charges on our actual library account...oops! :) Anyway, I'm going to try to bring you all up to speed with our family. Obviously I can't do it all at once, so I will try to do it in pieces.

Since today is Samuel's 6 month birthday, I'll start with him. Samuel is the easiest baby yet. Paige was easy, he is easier. He is always happy. Always smiling. Loves to giggle and is very ticklish. When he's not smiling, he's sleeping.

He is also the first of our kids to acutally hit developmental milestones on target. Eli is delayed for obvious reasons. Paige was content to just sit. She didn't really pull to stand or even become mobile until after her first birthday. Samuel is rolling over and has found that he can get to things he wants this way. I often find him across the living room from where I left him. He is almost sitting independently. He'll have that down here shortly.

Samuel is a big boy, but we knew that when he was born at 8 pounds 10 ounces! Last time we checked he was 17 pounds (and that was over a month ago). I'm sure he's pushing close to 20 now. We'll find out for sure next week when we take him to the pediatrician.

Samuel has been a great addition to our family. He certainly completes us. Paige and Eli love him tons. They love to interact with him and make him laugh. We are certainly more complete with him here.

Monday, February 28, 2011

Hello???

Hello?

Heellloooo?

Is anyone there?

Tuesday, February 8, 2011

Congenital Heart Defect Awareness Week

February 7-14, 2011 is Congenital Heart Defect Awareness Week. It's strange how you don't know about something until it's staring you straight in the face. I had no idea that heart defects are the #1 birth defect! Here are some quick facts about CHD:

  • Congenital Heart Defects are the #1 birth defect. Source: March of Dimes
  • Congenital Heart Defects are the #1 cause of birth defect related deaths. Source: March of Dimes
  • About 1 out of every 100 babies are born each year with some type of Congenital Heart Defect. (approx. 40,000/year) Source: Children’s Heart Foundation
  • Nearly twice as many children die from Congenital Heart Defects in the United States each year as from all forms of childhood cancers combined, yet funding for pediatric cancer research is five times higher than funding for CHD. Source: Children’s Heart Foundation
  • The American Heart Association directs only $0.30 of every dollar donated toward research. The remainder goes toward administration, education and fundraising efforts. Of the $0.30 that goes toward research only $0.01 goes toward pediatric cardiology for CHD. Source: Children’s Heart Foundation
  • This year approximately 4,000 babies will not live to see their first birthday because of Congenital Heart Defects. Source: Children’s Heart Foundation
  • The cost for inpatient surgery to repair Congenital Heart Defects exceeds $2.2 billion a year. Source: Children’s Heart Foundation
  • Of every dollar the government spends on medical funding only a fraction of a penny is directed toward Congenital Heart Defect research. Source: Children’s Heart Foundation
  • Though research is ongoing, at least 35 defects have now been identified.
  • 4-8% born with CHD have Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome (Eli's defect)
  • 4-10% born with CHD have Atrioventricular Septal Defects
  • 8-11% born with CHD have Coarctation of the Aorta
  • 9-14% born with CHD have Tetralogy of Fallot
  • 10-11% born with CHD have Transposition of the Great Arteries
  • 14-16% born with CHD have Ventricular Septal Defects
  • Although some babies will be diagnosed during gestation or at birth, sometimes the diagnosis is not made until days, weeks, months, or even years after. In some cases, CHD is not detected until adolescence or adulthood. Source: March of Dimes
  • It is a proven fact that the earlier CHD is detected and treated, it is more likely the affected child will survive and have less long term health complications. Source: March of Dimes
Raising awareness about CHD is becoming an important part of my life. Had we not known about Eli's defect before he was born, it's likely we would not have him today. I feel we are extremely lucky that the ultrasound tech was screening closely and found his broken heart. There are many moms and dads out there grieving over a broken hearted baby that was undetected.

Will you join me in raising awareness and support of CHD? Our local chapter of It's My Heart, an organization that advocates and provides support to those affected by CHD, is having their annual Awareness Run/Walk this Saturday. We have created Eli's Fourth Chamber in honor of Eli. You can join our team by walking, running, or even cyber walking if you are long distance. Or if you feel like just donating to Eli's team, you can do that as well. Eli appreciates the support you have given him over the past 2 years and you continue to give. The support here will help raise awareness and support of other heart families here in the area. Thank you!!

Saturday, February 5, 2011

Paige's Prayer

Every night before bed, we pray with Paige. She usually begins with the same things, then is thankful for one special or fun thing she did that day. Lately she has been expanding on her prayers and is saying the cutest things! It really just melts our hearts.

Normally she says, "Jesus thank you for Mommy, Daddy, Paige, Eli, and Samuel. Thank you for making Eli's heart much better. And thank you for...."

2 nights ago she says, "Jesus thank you for Mommy, Daddy, Paige, Eli, and Samuel. Please make Eli's heart much better because you're in it."

Tonight she says, "Jesus thank you for Mommy, Daddy, Paige, Eli and Samuel. Could you please make Eli's heart better? Let me know."

We can't help but giggle through our prayers with her. She is so sweet.

Tuesday, November 23, 2010

30 Days of Thanksgiving: Day 23



'Nuff said! :)